Have you ever practised breath work?
If so, do you practise regularly?
If not, are you open to giving it a go?
The Practice That Came Out on Top
The other day, I asked myself a question: what has been the most transformative personal growth, spiritual, and health practice that I do regularly?
Breath work was the one that came out on top.
Why?
Because, from my experience, it’s led to a much calmer mind, more enjoyment of life, especially the day-to-day that can so often get people down (myself included), and a deeper appreciation for all of life. I’m also less reactive, and I find it easier to create distance from my ego. In many ways, it’s a direct antidote to the kind of mental spinning that happens when worrying takes over.
And that’s before we even get to the scientific and health benefits.
The Science Behind the Breath
This isn’t just a feel-good practice. There’s a growing body of research behind it. Slow, controlled breathing is linked to lower stress and anxiety, largely because it activates the parasympathetic nervous system, our “rest and digest” state, via the vagus nerve. Box breathing has been shown to ease acute stress, anxiety and low mood in the short term. It’s simple, free, and low-risk.
That ability to stay calmer and less reactive is also one of the best tools I know for understanding why we snap, and for catching ourselves before we do.
My Idea for You Today: Breathe
So, my idea for you today is thisโฆ
Breathe.
As simple as that.
Take 5 to 10 minutes out of your day, every day, to just breathe!
How to Do Box Breathing
There are many different breathing techniques, from the 4-7-8 method to box breathing. I recommend starting with box breathing.
Here’s how:
- Visualise a box.
- As you go up one side, inhale and count to 4.
- As you go across the top, hold your breath for 4.
- As you go down the other side, exhale for 4.
- As you go across the bottom, hold for 4.
- Repeat for 5 to 10 minutes.
The number of seconds you choose can vary. I’ve gone with 4, as that’s what I’m practising right now. But you could easily choose 5, 6, 7, or 8 seconds.
Consistency Is Where the Magic Happens
Practise it consistently and watch how you become calmer, more peaceful, and less reactive.
That’s the real secret. It isn’t the odd session when you remember; it’s the daily rhythm. A few minutes every day will do far more for you than a long session once in a blue moon.
Key Takeaways for Breathwork
- Luke’s top practice: Breathwork topped the list of the most transformative personal growth, spiritual and health practices Luke does regularly.
- The felt benefits: A calmer mind, more enjoyment of daily life, deeper appreciation, less reactivity and more distance from the ego.
- The science: Slow breathing is linked to lower stress and anxiety, partly by activating the parasympathetic nervous system through the vagus nerve.
- Box breathing evidence: Research suggests box breathing can ease acute stress, anxiety and low mood in the short term, and it is simple and low-risk.
- The practice: Just 5 to 10 minutes a day is enough to start.
- How box breathing works: Inhale for 4, hold for 4, exhale for 4, hold for 4, then repeat.
- The count is flexible: Use anywhere from 4 to 8 seconds, whatever feels comfortable for you.
- Consistency wins: A few minutes every day does far more than a long session once in a while.
FAQs for Breathwork
What is breathwork?
Breathwork is the practice of consciously controlling your breathing to influence how you feel. It covers many techniques, from box breathing to the 4-7-8 method. Done regularly, it can help calm the mind, lower stress and make you feel more present, which is why many people treat it as a daily practice.
What is box breathing and how do you do it?
Box breathing is a simple technique using four equal phases. Inhale for four seconds, hold for four, exhale for four, then hold for four, and repeat. Picture tracing the four sides of a box as you go. Practise for five to ten minutes, using counts of 4 to 8 seconds.
What are the benefits of breathwork?
Breathwork can help you feel calmer, less reactive and more present. Research links slow breathing to reduced stress and anxiety, partly through activating the parasympathetic nervous system. Box breathing specifically has been shown to ease acute stress and anxiety in the short term, and it is simple and low-risk.
How long should I practise breathwork each day?
Five to ten minutes a day is a great starting point. Consistency matters more than duration, so a short daily practice beats a long one you only do occasionally. Over time, many people find the sense of calm carries over into the rest of their day.
Which breathing technique should a beginner start with?
Box breathing is a great place to start. It is simple to remember, easy to do anywhere, and uses equal counts, which makes it beginner-friendly. Once it feels natural, you can explore other techniques such as the 4-7-8 method or longer exhales for extra relaxation.
Does breathwork actually work, or is it hype?
There is real evidence behind it, though not every claim is proven. Slow breathing is reliably linked to lower stress, less anxiety and greater relaxation. Box breathing shows short-term benefits for stress and mood, with more mixed physiological findings. It is simple, free and low-risk, so it is worth trying.




